“Remember,” repeated my friend, “God will never give you more than you can handle.” That felt certain, the way a door closes on an expensive car. But was it true?

If God never gave people more than they could handle, why would they need God? Always strong, ever brave, never at a loss for an answer—had I been that person? May I be reasonably sure that I will be a friend, father, and neighbor who never fails and always handles every situation? Do I just need to lean my head back against the wall, close my eyes, take a few cleansing breaths, and call to mind this cool clear universal truth to chase away my fears as I reload?

Does “God will never give you more than you can handle” serve as an honest last line for all the different chapters of your life? What would be the sense of singing “A Mighty Fortress is Our God” if I hadn’t needed to run inside that fortress, bent over, hands on my knees, chest heaving, and catch my breath? “God is our refuge and strength” would be unnecessary except for the fool who forgets that he is a match for the worries of the day. We hear God saying, “Get back out there, soldier, and face your fears. You can do it all.”

Rather, the Scriptures and experience teach that God is always giving people more than they can handle. It’s in his fatherly interests to permit a human being to be overwhelmed. The question is not, “Will I be swept off my feet by powers beyond my control?” but rather, “Where will I turn when my strength is no match for my troubles?”

What about a biblical source for “God will never give you more than you can handle?” We find a near match in 1 Corinthians 10. One of Jesus’ apostles is addressing a congregation of Christians. They lacked love for one another. Instead of following the path of love, they gave in to the temptation and splintered themselves again and again over issues.

Paul reminded them that they were indeed Christians. They had baptism and the Lord’s Supper. But God did not give them forgiveness and freedom so that you may live as if “once saved, always saved” . . . or look at grace as a license to sin.

Paul cites half a dozen episodes (v. 6-10) in the church history of Old Testament Israel. To read these examples is to feel an icy hand of God’s law on the back of your neck. God is not mocked. ‘If you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!” (v. 12). Many Israelites who had once carried the name “God’s chosen people” did fall. The fearful wrath of God still operates against self-satisfaction and hard hearts. Scorn it at your peril!