The other day after church a non-member asked me why everyone looked so sad and serious after just having their sins washed away through communion. I said that even though my sins are forgiven I realize the cost of that through Christ's death for me is very serious and that I will sin again. What are your thoughts on this?
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What an important question you have asked! I hope many people read this and find greater joy in the sacrament.
The cost of forgiveness through Christ's death for me does indeed make Holy Communion a serious matter, but not a somber event.
For various cultural and historic reasons, some Lutherans may focus too much on their guilt or feeling "sorry enough" rather than focusing on the main point: that a loving and gracious God pours his love, forgiveness, and power for Christian living into our lives through this sacrament.
What is the dominant mood of Holy Communion? I have asked this question in several adult Bible classes. Many participants say "serious" or "repentance," but the dominant mood really is joy—granted, a serious and not giddy joy—but still joy.
The sacrament is pure gospel. That's why joy is the dominant mood.
We can learn something from our hymns, especially the text of Johann Franck's great communion hymn:
Soul, adorn yourself with gladness; Leave behind all gloom and sadness.
Come into the daylight's splendor; There with joy your praises render.
Now I kneel before you lowly, Filled with joy most deep and holy,
As with trembling awe and wonder On your mighty work I ponder.
(Christian Worship, 311:1,4)
How can we say that in communion we receive Christ's real body and blood?
The clear promise that Christ gives to his church is, "Take and eat, this is my body," and "This is my blood" (Matthew 26:26-28). Together with the bread and wine that we receive, Jesus, the Son of God, says he gives us his body and his blood that were given into death and poured out on our behalf.
The real presence of Christ's body and blood is a special, sacramental presence that is beyond our full understanding. We say this to avoid crass, cannibalistic ideas that have no place here. This eating is real, but it is supernatural. We do not see or taste the body and blood. It cannot be detected by our senses. We do not digest it like ordinary food.
In summary, we believe that Christ's body and blood are present in the Sacrament and received because of the promise of Christ and because Christ’s body is the body of the Son of God.
A more thorough study of this is available by reading Articles VII and VIII of the Formula of Concord, which deals with the connected subjects of the real presence of Christ's body and blood in the Lord's Supper and the person of Christ, the God-man.
Why isn't the Lord's Supper celebrated every Sunday (especially during Lent, Advent, etc.)?" It seems that as a sinner, I need that grace and forgiveness as much as possible.
Our Lord Jesus, in instituting this sacrament, did not address the issue of how often we should offer or receive it. His words merely indicate it is to be done repeatedly and until he returns again in glory. In short, the frequency is and will remain a matter of Christian freedom and the frequency of offering and receiving the Lord's Supper will remain a decision to be made by the local congregation and the individual child of God in consultation with the pastor. In the Small Catechism Martin Luther emphasized this aspect of the freedom that we have and then said the right way that the frequency is increased is when the people of God ask for it and insist on it from among themselves.
Your words might indicate unnecessary concern about the forgiveness of sins. You possess this continuously through faith in your Savior Jesus Christ and this faith with full forgiveness is conveyed and strengthened through the Gospel that you read in your home, hear in sermons and Bible readings, and ponder throughout life. So even when you do not receive the Sacrament on a given day or week, for example, your possession and enjoyment of pardon and peace need not be considered diminished. This is by no means said to downplay the value of the Lord's Supper -- which is pure Gospel -- but to avoid allowing the written and spoken Word to be considered lacking whenever the sacrament is absent.
When I ask God with a sincere and contrite heart to forgive my sins, I know I am forgiven. God's amazing grace and love for me, through Jesus Christ, has made this possible. Why is it still important that I partake of Holy Communion?
We receive the Lord's Supper for precisely the same reasons that we listen to or read the gospel when the Word of God is made available to us. You are correct when you describe that you have the free and full forgiveness of sins as you confess your sins to God and seek his forgiveness on account of Christ's perfect and completed work for you. Why do you enjoy this magnificent reality? Not because of your asking or being sorry for your sins (although these are certainly a part of your thinking and feeling since the Holy Spirit leads you to express this). Rather, it is because of Christ's work for you, his giving himself, including his body and blood into death in your place—and the Holy Spirit has brought you to trust or rely on Christ as your Savior and substitute. How did you receive and now enjoy this saving faith? Through the gospel. And when you receive the Lord's Supper you are receiving the very same good news about Christ's work for you—along with the body and blood to affirm and intensify the message for your spiritual health. And your saving faith is being nourished.
The Lord's Supper has been called a "visible gospel" since it comes to us visibly in a way that the spoken or written Word does not. But it's the same gospel, essentially the same message. The Holy Spirit uses the Lord's Supper the same way he uses the Word of God to maintain and strengthen our faith in Christ. No wonder we delight in both Word and sacrament. You are not really receiving anything different, but you are receiving it in a different way—the forgiveness of sins and affirmation of Christ's work for you.
When asked, "Why the Lord's Supper in addition to the Bible reading or sermons we already receive?" we may reply, "For the same reason we enjoy and want lunch and supper in addition to breakfast." All are designed to nourish and strengthen us. All feed us physically. Word and sacrament feed us spiritually. The more the better!
Can I take communion if I live with my fiancé? We are getting married in about a month, and I have not been taking communion.
Thank you for your thoughtful approach to this important kind of question. Your spiritual well-being is of utmost importance and your desire to receive the Lord's Supper in a fitting way is a good evidence that you need clear answers to your concerns.
One of the requirements for a proper reception of Communion is that the person is not guilty of willful sin (that is, sinning when you know it is sin but for some reason continue to commit that sin). While we are all sinners, God calls us to express daily sorrow for sin and repentance, which includes reliance on Jesus as our Savior. Living with someone who is not your marriage partner (even a fiancé) is a sin since, as normally defined, it involves sexual immorality and causes others to stumble spiritually when they observe your lifestyle and get the impression this is compatible with Christian lifestyle. This calls for repentance that involves a rejection and turning away from the sin as well as a turning to Christ for pardon and new life.
In short, as long as you fail to repent of this sin, you are not in a position to receive Communion in a proper and beneficial way. It would be spiritually harmful. You are to be urged to stop this sinful lifestyle, cast your guilt on Christ by faith, and then see yourself as a perfect candidate for blessings through the sacrament. Don't seek to excuse your living arrangement on the basis of your scheduled marriage in a month or so. And don't deceive yourself into thinking that once you are married you will then express sorrow for what you did and think everything is okay. You and I and all others are called by God to repent daily -- now -- and to reject sin and cling to Christ. And live a new life, starting every day.
I repeat: I am thankful that you have asked this question and that you still have a desire to take Communion. I believe this indicates that you are wrestling with a guilty conscience and understand within yourself that there is a special need for special assurances of God's love. May you keep first things first, by rejecting sin and expressing repentance with faith. And may the same be true of your fiancé, who is equally guilty of sin and equally called to repent and rely on Jesus Christ.
I also recommend that you sit down with your pastor to discuss this more fully. He knows you and the situation better than I do and can give you more specific encouragements and counsel.
In one of the Q&As, you mention that a (major) difference between Catholic and Lutheran theology is the doctrine of transubstantiation. At first glance, the Lutheran and Catholic approach to Holy Communion seem to be quite similar. Could you explain?
The Catholic church believes that only priests ordained by bishops in communion with the Pope or in the apostolic succession of the Eastern church have the power to consecrate the bread and wine so that they become body and blood of Christ and that nothing of the substance of the bread and wine remains, only body and blood. They also believe that the elements remain Christ's body and blood even after the mass is over. The elements can be reserved in a special place. The elements can be bowed to and prayed to. They believe the mass is a sacrifice. They also curse everyone who does not accept this view.
We believe that, together with the bread and wine, Christ's body and blood are truly present, however, this does not depend on papal ordination but on Christ's institution. We do not accept the adoration (worship) of the host, nor do we believe that a sacrifice takes place. We stick just to what the Words of Institution say.
How worthy do you have to be to receive communion?
Your question gives evidence of a common misunderstanding that burdens consciences or distorts the meaning of the Bible unnecessarily. Thanks for asking to allow these comments.
In and of ourselves we have no "worthiness" to be in fellowship with our Lord God or to have and enjoy his gifts like the gospel in Word and sacrament. To seek a personal "worthiness" is futile and approaching God in a wrong way.
In the light of Christ's perfect and finished work in our place, and reflecting the personal possession of this treasure through God-given faith in Jesus, we are fully "worthy" of such blessings, including the Lord's Supper and all other gifts God freely gives. Our "worthiness" is always and only linked to personal repentance and reliance on our Savior. That is how "worthy" we need to be to enjoy and derive blessing from his gospel instruments.
The misunderstanding I referred to earlier assumes you are thinking of Paul's words in 1 Corinthians 11:27. Read the passage carefully and note that it does not say we are to "be" worthy or to somehow make ourselves "worthy." Rather it speaks of receiving the sacrament "in an unworthy manner." That means that we who are worthy through Christ's work and personal faith in him can act or approach the sacrament in an unworthy, unfitting, or inappropriate manner or way. The issue is not that we ourselves are to be worthy but that our use of the sacrament be fitting or proper for such a wonderful means of grace. The Corinthian believers, who were certainly "worthy" as believers who enjoyed the blessings Christ won for them and enjoyed God-given faith, could nevertheless act or behave in an unworthy manner in connection with the sacrament. From this section of 1 Corinthians 11 we learn that their unfitting or inappropriate behavior was in treating the Lord's Supper as an ordinary meal, eating it with selfish or unloving attitudes over against the less fortunate among them, and failing to honor the meal and the real presence of Christ's body and blood as they should have. So Paul warns them. Anytime a professing believer eats and drinks the Lord's Supper without personal repentance and reliance on Christ, unworthy behavior is also happening.
My answer to you, then, is that you ARE worthy through Christ's blood and God's gift of saving faith. Do not let your conscience be burdened on that. But see that the point the Bible is making is that we who are "worthy" by God's grace in Christ are nevertheless capable of "unworthy" behavior, using the sacrament in an unfitting and inappropriate way. Daily repentance and faith in Jesus will continue to give us the ability and wisdom to use the sacrament wisely and properly.
Can you give communion to patients with dementia?
Self-examination (involving confession of sin, reliance on Christ, and a grasp of the meaning and purpose of the sacrament) and an awareness of what the Lord's Supper is (Christ's body and blood in addition to the bread and wine) are intimately connected with a proper and beneficial reception of the Lord's Supper. 1 Corinthians 11:27-32 treat these topics. Since a person suffering from dementia might not and often does not have the capability to express these important aspects of taking Communion, we normally withhold the sacrament from them. This says nothing at all about the inner faith-life that we assume the Holy Spirit is maintaining within them; it only addresses what strikes us as a faithful or conscientious administering of the sacrament in the light of biblical statements. Nor does this spiritually do damage to the person who suffers from this physical malady. If fact, someone who has dementia is seldom aware or conscious of what is given or withheld from them at a given time.
Emotionally, this is difficult for us all. And usually the stated desire to give such a person Communion more likely comes from a friend or family member of the afflicted person who seeks blessings for the loved one. We also seek to be blessings to the person, but not at the expense of sensitivities and requisites expressed in the Bible. Rather, we share the spoken Word with them and prayerfully ask that the Spirit somehow use that for His purposes. And we trust God to preserve the faith-life of his dear child.
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